It's so easy to judge others every time and pointing fingers at them, without acknowledging the real truth and reason behind that made them take those courses of action. Have you ever think to put your self in their shoes before judging them? I guess no.
Who are we to decide what is right and what is wrong for others when we ourselves are not perfect?
I am not asking for self-judgment every time but yeah self-awareness and self-analysis are good and helps you in a better way for personal growth and its not self-judgment at all.
Sometimes I wonder, why to care and keep expectations from others so much that we end up hurting ourselves. We should learn to value our feelings and emotions and that is something precious and not to waste for wrong reasons.
Every time a person judges others is somewhere frustrated within himself or maybe hurt inside that he ends up hurting others too.
But isn't it right to say that we ourselves bring the mountain of troubles and complicate our own life just to fulfill the temporary happiness that should not be lasted for long?
Why find it in others when we can find it within?
True happiness and peace come with compassion and forgiving and it starts with you. As you learn how to forgive and be kind to yourselves, things go smoothly. Life becomes easy and past mistakes don't haunt you anymore. If you are compassionate to others and not being fair to yourself, then it is incomplete.
The journey itself is definitely not so easy but once you realize what needed to be done, peace will be with you. You have to be careful of what and how you are talking to yourself as you and your mind will react to that and you will be the outcome result of what you listened to. This is called Self-awareness. Take time, understand your own doubts and seek help if you find it hard to rectify. Pray, discuss, and be fearless while taking points on self-analysis.
Then you will not be so quick to judge or make any conclusions for others.
The problem we see in people is that they tend to become arrogant, full of ego and thereby can't ask for help without self-judgment as a result can't even offer help to others without judging them.
©Hena Ghosh
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